Exploring the Existential Question: Should We Fear Death?

Recently, I've come across several posts discussing people's fear of death, a common concern. I, too, have experienced this fear, but I felt inspired to try and alleviate it for others.

Throughout the years, I have transitioned from feeling extremely scared of death. A portion of this fear stems from religious trauma, as my father, who was mostly absent but occasionally present, would tell me I was going to hell for listening to the band KISS when I was just 7 years old. Additionally, I had a general fear of the unknown fate that awaits us after death.

Like most of you, I've lost people I love, but it wasn't until I lost my mother that the grief hit harder than I had ever experienced and sent me into a deep depression. There were days where I didn't want to be here anymore because not only had I lost my mom, but I had also lost my aunt and 2 cousins, whom I loved deeply, in a very short time. I was in a hole and didn't know how I was going to get myself out. Having been in therapy years ago, I didn't feel like it was an option at that time for various reasons. One day I was watching TV and someone was talking about Reiki, and I had never heard of that, but was intrigued, so I started researching. Long story short, I became a Reiki Master and started a spiritual journey that brought me back to life and to the light. Not only was I practicing Reiki, but I also learned how to work with the Angels, and through meditation, I realized that Archangel Azrael is one of my guardian angels. Most know him as The Angel of Death, but I prefer to call him The Angel of Transition because he's not some hooded, scary figure that you always see portrayed. He's absolutely beautiful and one of the most caring energies that I've come across!

"Fear of death is normal, but not needed-for you are never alone-Angels and your ancestors surround you, just as they do at your birth for both are truly joyous occasions. The earthly death is merely a transition from one plane to the other, just like walking through a door. It is a sacred and necessary event for the growth of your soul. Do not fear "the punishment of hell" for it is non-existent. When you transition, you will feel a great relief as one does when they "return home" or as a child running into the arms of a parent-for that is what will happen. Those that have come before you will be there, waiting to greet you. I will be there as well, to assist you during the transition, you will never be alone."

While no one can say for certain what happens to us, I truly believe that we continue on in light and love, and I hope that this can help ease the fears that some may have. Please leave a comment with any questions or experiences of your own; I'd love to hear them!